(continued from yesterday's post)
“My heart is raw from revelation,
keening to be covered,
yet I am pressed on by the elation,
of the you I have discovered
when I tiptoed to the edge, the edge of you,
only to flee from your intimacy,
then crawl to the edge anew..."
I am in awe of the teenager who had the courage to write these daring words to a twenty-three year old man she hardly knew. In a made-for-TV movie, the script would have called for the man to callously rip up the poem, rejecting me along with my rash lyrics. I would have spent the next two and a half hours descending into alcoholism, prostitution, and petty crime, hitting bottom in a murder-suicide moments before the last commercial break.
Why didn't these tragic consequences occur to me as I wrote? I think it was because I was so high on "elation" that I ignored the risk. I had the courage to write. I had the courage to reveal myself.
And that’s when I knew, sitting there with that letter from long ago in my hand, that I was finally hearing Revelation speak. It wasn't a command to write young adult thrillers. It wasn't the title of my middle grade novel that would capture the
Newbery Medal. It was simply that I had been looking for answers in the wrong places. I had been searching the sky for a booming voice when I should have been searching myself. I had been awaiting a revelation, when
I was the one who was supposed to be doing the revealing.
If I wanted to see “What I Was Here For,” I was going to have to take off some clothes and look. At myself. More than that, if I wanted to write convincing fiction, I was going to have let other people look at me in my (emotional) underwear. Or in even less. For it is only the revelation of my soul will draw readers to my words. Readers who hope to watch me dancing naked there, and learn something from my awkward steps about the dance they were created to perform.
Can I do this? Can I do it for my intended audience of young readers? Children are not ashamed of their nakedness. More than that, they snub any book in which they sense the author is a coward. If I want to earn them as readers, I will have to write about my ugliest mistakes and my most humiliating moments. I will have to write about laughing so hard on the third-grade playground that I peed in my pants. I will have to write about dreading school bus conversations, when I had to fake knowledge of the Fonz to conceal my family's embarrassing lack of a television set. I will have to write about crying in sixth grade when my best friend hid my glasses, and ridiculed me for my near blindness–in front of those she expected to be her new best friends.
How will I be able to do this? My hope is that elation will shove me on, that the promise of its heady joy will push me off cliffs and into
snakepits. That its glow will not allow my work to hide in the recesses of my desk drawers. Without elation, I would cringe at Revelation's voice. For it really did say, "I have created thee to dance naked on the tabletops of Knoxville, Tennessee." And everywhere else I want my words to be read.
This is an essay I wrote several years ago, before I published (or even wrote) my first book. It chronicles a turning point in my life as a writer, and I dug it out recently because it talks about being seventeen and unsure of your role in life, things that were on my mind as I drove my daughter to college a few days ago. Also, because some of you have asked about the letters I'm lying on in the picture to the right. Here's part one:
Taking It All Off in Knoxville,Tennessee
When I was seventeen, I longed for the day when the clouds would part, the thunder roll, and the voice of Revelation boom: "Hear ye, hear ye! This is thy purpose in life: I have created thee to be a doctor. Go forth and cheat death.” Or: “I have created thee to be a scientist. Go forth and seek truth.” Or even: “I have created thee to be an exotic dancer. Go forth and dance naked on the tabletops of Knoxville, Tennessee."It didn't matter what the voice commanded. I was desperate to know what I was meant to do in life. The choices were endless and staggering, from Stanford mathematician to Broadway ticket seller. From French pastry chef to Graceland grave guard. I could waste years finding my destined path. Or waste no time at all veering down the road to career hell. At seventeen, every path was a confusing gamble, and only Revelation's booming voice would do as a guide.Years later, I find myself still awaiting a revelation. No, not a voice announcing what I am to do with my life–somehow I stumbled down the path of a writer and it seems too late to turn back–but I long for a revelation of what I am meant to write. I think I am here to write for children. But am I meant to write easy-to-read primers or lyrical picture books? Fantasy tales of dandies and dragons or biting real life stories of drugs and despair? A novel of teenage sex or a counting book called Ten Aged Socks? It would be so much easier if Revelation would speak up. A simple "Go forth and ease aching teenage hearts" would be welcome. "Go forth and make fifth-graders giggle" might be fun. I could even tolerate "Go forth scare the pants off pre-teens with hackneyed plots and free-flowing gore" if Revelation were adamant enough. Until that moment, though, I am in the dark. I do what I used to do in the dark as a kid: read under the covers. I study books about dialogue, books about character development, books about marketing technique. I read in search of answers. Of revelations.Recently, the book under the covers was The Courage to Write, by Ralph Keyes. What I learned there first shocked, and then shamed me. The shock came on page twenty-eight when I read that some writers hide finished manuscripts in desk drawers. They are terrified of sending them to an editor. Are these writers mad? What use is slaving over the perfect mix of words without a reader to savor the final result? Get it to the starving customers, already!Yet, the stories of these fearful writers spawned an annoying idea. “Why aren't you afraid to drop an envelope in the mailbox?” it buzzed. "Why don't your stories try to wriggle from your hands and burrow deep into a desk drawer?” Maybe it was because my work was shallow and easily fashioned, instead of deep and fearfully wrought. Maybe I lacked courage. I felt shamed that the only words I’d written that I trembled to send were personal letters.There was the letter I wrote my first boyfriend, telling him it was over. In it, I swore I loved him (as a friend, of course), but we weren't meant to be. It caused his mother and sister, to whom he showed it, to hate me. We didn't speak again.There was the letter I sent my parents from college, trumpeting my determination to get married, and detailing the injustice of their opposition. It was about six pages long, passionate, and full of as much confusion as truth. It was written in pain, and induced more pain when it was read.There were the letters I wrote my husband during our four years of long-distance courtship before we married. Hundreds of letters on such gut-wrenching topics as whether I loved him or not, what I feared most about marriage, and what attracted me to other men. Many of these letters caused major earthquakes when they arrived, and I shook in my shoes as I wrote them and cried after I'd mailed them. At least he didn't show them to his mother. She's a creative seamstress, a generous woman, who might have sewn me into a pillow and donated me to a homeless shelter. I compared these letters to my more recent work: short stories for children, an occasional nonfiction article, a stab at science fiction for adults, a few word puzzles written out of boredom. My most ambitious project was a one-act play I had begun that month. Of course, I worried about this work: that an embarrassing spelling error would creep in. Or that a story would not meet the needs of the magazine's audience. Or that an article would feature obvious misinformation. But had I trembled to send my words out to editors? No. I was ashamed to admit I had not.
The Courage to Write implied that fear was a natural outcome of writing, like sweat pouring out of skin during ditch digging. Where was my sweat of fear? Maybe I could find it in those early letters. Digging furiously, I unearthed the first letter I had written to my husband and studied it. Lovestruck after just two weeks of dating, and just seventeen, I had composed the following:
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Brava! That was well worth the wait. Thanks for the honesty and inspiration.
Thank you so much for sharing this essay. Baring our souls is the hardest thing a writer must learn to do, when we spend our lives trying so hard to hold onto it and protect it. You are courageous . . .
Courage is the gift one writer can give another. When I write, sometimes I think: OMG! OMG! I can't do this! And then I'll be reading something amazing, and I'll think OMG! OMG! Look at what she/he just did!
Oh. I needed this nudge. Now I'll have to work on my dance...
OK, HipWriterMama...I'll be saving a place at (I mean, ON) the table for you. :)
"{Children} snub any book in which they sense the author is a coward." Word. Awesome.
Thanks for the excellent read.
I'm wracking my brain, trying to remember where I read the other day about writers writing from the heart (at another blog -- I know this isn't very specific in the slightest, but I promise it was a good read. If I remember, I'll send).
I think I remember those days. I of course, burned my book of poetry for long ago. Thanks for the reminder.
I have worked with kids and it is true, they can smell a cowardice jellyfish from miles away and are disgusted.
If you can't take chances with words, then when can you take chances?
"...the next two and a half hours descending into alcoholism, prostitution and petty crime, hitting bottom in a murder-suicide moments before the last commercial break."
Hah! Okay, you KNOW your Lifetime! Seriously, "I had been searching the sky for a booming voice when I should have been searching myself." --
We're always waiting for lightning when there's a breeze wafting around us, kicking up the dust of our dailiness, urging us to pay attention, to tell the true.
I think you're headed well into the wind.
This is so true! And you have hit on the main reason I want to write for kids and teens: because I long to send out the message 'Don't worry: we all go through it, and it doesn't last forever.'
As for courage, I wrote poetry too as a teenager, but you'd have to put a gun to my head to get me to show anyone now. At least yours is good!
"...kicking up the dust of our dailiness, urging us to pay attention, to tell the true." Oh, I do love that, TadMack!
Mary: now that I've seen your writing at your blog, I may have to find a (water)gun to hold to your head. I'll bet your poetry rocks, too.
Amy: "If you can't take chances with words, then when can you take chances?" Indeed. Go forth and proclaim this!!
And thanks, eisha and jules, for so faithfully always stopping by and encouraging me. You guys and 7-Imps definitely give me courage for the journey.
One of my mottos has been, "IF I don't trust myself enough to share myself, why would a reader trust what I write."
Great Post!
Bill
Amen to that, Bill. What a great motto to have!
Sweeeet, Sara! Well said.
:-)