
Zack and Chloe take kids on a zany ride through the “Do’s and Don’ts” showing how not be a “Manner Monster.”
Kids will enjoy learning about kindness and good manners in this fun new book by award-winning author Hayley Rose. From waiting until you’ve swallowed a bite before speaking to keeping your napkin on your lap, from saying excuse me to knocking before entering a room, and from remembering to say “thank you” to asking permission to use another person’s belongings and more, The Do’s and Don’ts will help teach your children the best way to treat others. Youngsters will enjoy the crazy antics of the Manner Monster, while parents will appreciate the good manners and everyday kindnesses shared throughout the book’s 38 pages. The vibrant artwork by Mark Sean Wilson encourages readers to keep turning the pages.
Every home with kids should own a copy of The Do’s and Don’ts. Highly recommended.
Rating: :) :) :) :) :)
Hardcover: 38 pages
Publisher: Inkwell Productions (August 24, 2013)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1939625386
ISBN-13: 978-1939625380
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I received a free copy of this book from the author through Pump Up Your Book Virtual Book Tours. This review contains my honest opinions, which I have not been compensated for in any way.
Multi-award-winning author Hayley Rose released her first children’s book, Fifo When I Grow Up, about a six-year-old bear starting school in 2002, followed by the wildly popular geography book and #1 best-seller, Fifo 50 States, published in 2010. In 2012, Hayley was selected as one of “The Top 50 Writers You Should Be Reading” by AuthorsShow.com. In 2013, she branched out with a new series featuring a new set of characters, Zach and Chloe the Louis the manner monster. Her new book, The Do’s and Don’ts, was released in September 2013 and has already garnered four literary awards, including the Readers’ Favorite, USA Best Books and the prestigious Mom’s Choice Awards, bringing her career total to twenty-one. The follow up book in the new series, Today I Feel Emotion, will be released in the spring of 2014.
Hayley Lives in Scottsdale, AZ, with her dog Blanche.
Visit her website at www.booksbyhayleyrose.com.

I spent my whole weekend writing letters to the editors and agents, giving them the information they need for the conference and asking for critique donations for our Scholarship Fund. I normally do not repost an article, but I thought this one was worth repeating. Plus, it would help give me a few hours to get some other things on my list done. I did add a few new things if you read this last year.
At this year’s conference attendees can sign up to attend a Mix and Mingle on Friday night with the faculty. This is a great opportunity for people to meet and network with agents, editors and published authors.
You never know where getting to talk with industry professional in a social setting will lead, so I think it is important to discuss some of the things that will help you put your best foot forward. Remember, you are making an impression when you meet another person and you want that impression to be a good one. Nobody wants to do business with someone they think is rude, so tamp down the aggressive behavior.
Here are some conference etiquette do’s and don’ts:
Don’t:
1. Don’t stalk an editor or agent. There are numerous stories about authors who have followed an editor/agent into the bathroom and slipped a manuscript under the door. This is never a good idea.
2. Don’t push your manuscript on an editor /agent and never sneak it into their briefcase, or folder. In fact don’t whip out your manuscript at the conference, unless the editor or agent asks you to physically hand it over. If an editor/agent is interested, ask them how they would like you to submit it.
3. Don’t cut into another member’s conversation with an editor or agent. They will notice and you’ll make enemies of your co-attendees. And don’t hog the conversation at the Mix and Mingle or the lunches. Be considerate to your fellow writers and give them a chance.
4. Don’t get tongue tied. There will be plenty of opportunity to talk with the faculty during the conference, so if you do not get to talk to them at the Mix and Mingle you’ll have time later. Prepare and rehearse a pitch, so you can spout off a few coherent sentences, when you are asked what are you working on.
5. Don’t bring gifts, booze, or line cards with glittery sprinkles or stars.
6. Don’t brag or compare your writing to a Newbery award winning author or book.
7. Don’t argue with the editor /agent if they say something you don’t agree with during your manuscript critique your manuscript. Don’t cry or get mad. Not everyone likes every book they read and even if they truely act like they hate it, so what? That doesn’t mean someone else will feel the same way. Listen, ask questions and get as much out of the critique as you possibly can. They might spark an idea that breathes life into your story. Even if someone says you should give up writing, don’t let it bother you. They are wrong. Please don’t expect that, because it won’t happen and if it does, please let me know. Editors are wrong all the time. Most famous authors have been rejected over and over again.
8. Don’t forget to be respectful and friendly.
9. Don’t forget to bring your business cards and postcards of your illustrations. Don’t make the mistake of trying to whip out your portfolio at lunch or other social events. That is not the time or place for this. It is very difficult for someone to focus on a portfolio, but it is easy to handle a postcard.
10. Don’t forget to laugh. Bring your sense of humor
I remember this post from before — some things really stuck with me — but I’m glad you decided to post it again. It bears repeating. Let’s hope those who most need to read this, do! Thanks.
Thank you for reposting this, Kathy. It’s easy to get flustered at such a big event, so keeping these tips in mind is extremely helpful!
I’ve also discovered that in addition to purchasing signed copies of books from attending authors for myself, they make awesome end-of-school-year thank you gifts for my children’s teachers! They LOVE them!!
Thanks for posting this Kathy! I’ve been following your blog for a week or two now and have found it to be so helpful. I’m attending my first writing conference this May. Your posts on pitch and conference etiquette couldn’t have been more perfectly timed.
Hi Kathy, I’m going to LA Writers’ Days this month — my first conference. This post was timely and VERY helpful. Good luck with your conference!
Every word of this rings true
To me, you SHOULD re-post this (and all the conference reminders) every year. It’s good for the “veterans” to refresh as the time inches closer, and it’s invaluable for all those who are “First Timers!”
Thanks, Kathy
Kristen,
Enjoy your first conference and let me know how you make out. In the future you should think about joining us on the East Coast. We have a lot of people fly in from CA every year to attend out conference in June.
Good luck,
Kathy
Eileen,
Thanks for sharing that idea with us. I never thought about giving them to school teachers. Probably, because my son is grown. We should mention that at the conference – good idea. I’ll be in touch soon.
Kathy
Rosi,
People have to be more aware of hw they are being viewed. It seems every year, I have an editor mention someone who forced themselves on them. Instead of making an ally, all they did was make the editor want to run away. So I hope they do read this and it sinks in.
Talk soon,
Kathy
Thanks Kathy! Or maybe I’ll see you at SCWBI in LA?
Kirsten,
I probably will not make it out to LA this year. I love LA, but I attended last year and this year I had my knee replaced. It probably would be okay by the summer, but it isn’t ready for travel yet. Don’t want to put out the money if there is a chance I would not be able to go.
Kathy