This entire month of blog challenge, dealing with family, led me to yesterday, today, and tomorrow. Obvious, I know. I knew that at some point I was going to have to speak seriously about my mother, and I knew how difficult that would be for me.
The stories I’ve written this month have taken me to places where emotions have near drop-kicked me on many days. This one will lay me out completely and I know it. I was going to write it yesterday. I just couldn’t force myself to do it. I wasn’t ready yet to drown in all of those feelings that had been swirling for a month, just under the surface where they would swallow me at the slightest provocation.
Let sleeping dogs lie is the old adage that covers this situation, and I’m about to begin poking that big brute that lives below the waves. That being the case, I’ll share a part of my mother that has less sorrow for me.
Mom loved kids and animals better than anything else in the world, family excluded, of course. She was a natural mother, who could sooth any child, tame just about any creature, and generally get along with the world regardless of circumstance.
From the time I was about thirteen or so, old bird cages, boxes, baskets, etc. shared Mom’s kitchen with us. Inside those cages, boxes, baskets, etc. were babies. Some were birds, some baby bunnies, or any number of other wild things. She definitely took after her mother in that regard.
There were orphans that stick strongly in my memory. I came home one day to find baby groundhogs nestled inside an old towel in a cardboard box on a chair beside the stove. They were two of the sweetest little creatures I’d ever seen; all brown and cuddly, rolled up into balls keeping warm against each other. Someone had found them abandoned and had brought them to Mom.
I don’t remember how long she had them before the groundhogs were released, and I don’t know that it matters now. I do know that there were few weeks during spring or summer when orphans didn’t come to our house.
Dad brought her the baby bunnies. He was mowing the yard and didn’t realize that one of the local cottontails had made her warren near the edge of the driveway. The rabbits were tiny things and terrified. Dad knew that the mother would never return to the nest warren after it had been disturbed.
On another occasion, a friend brought her a pair of silver fox babies to tend for a few weeks, until they were weaned. He bred silver foxes and needed a surrogate mother for them for a while. Mom did her thing and they soon went back to their rightful home.
One wet, cold spring day, Mom went mushroom hunting. Keeping her out of the woods during mushroom season was unheard of. Having her come home with a baby Great Horned Owl, though, was different. The wee thing had fallen/or been pushed from its next.
She heard it, found it, and scooped it up. It was in shock; its down feathers were soaked, and it couldn’t stop shiverin
That was beautiful. Oh how I’ve missed talking to you. Mom’s are like that, yes they are. I have to admit I am envious of your mom’s ability to make peace with the beasts of the field. Be Blessed, Lynn~~
Ah, Zeebs! I thought you’d disappeared. I’ve missed you, my friend. Mom had the touch, as did her mother. I was smart choosing this aspect to talk about. I only cried for fifteen minutes instead of an hour.
Thank you for stopping by. I’ve missed talking with you as well. Take care and God bless.
Claudsy
This was quite a series you undertook on family… had me in tears more times than I can count. Bless your heart.
Aw, thanks, Carrie. You weren’t the only one in tears, believe me. Nearly every day I spilled several tissues full while going through editing.
Love ya and so glad to hear from you.
Claudsy
I can believe it! Such an emotional journey. (Your memory astounds me, btw).
Love, Boo.
Don’t be too awed, Carrie. Much of that is from what Mom relayed to me and woven from impressions more than anything else. I’ve listened to so many tales over the years about this happening or that person, that the “memories” are much like family history by now.
I have few clear memories, and those are fragmented. Stitching them together is much like writing an essay from bits of info pulled from several sources.
Thanks again.
Claudsy